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Ronald “Butch” DeFeo Jr. was born in 1951, the eldest child of Ronald Sr. and Louise DeFeo. Outwardly, the DeFeos seemed to represent the American ideal; Catholic, close-knit, financially comfortable and socially respected. Ronald Sr. was known to be strict and authoritative, while Louise was a devoted homemaker.
Ronald Sr. worked at a Brooklyn Buick dealership owned by his father-in-law, and when Butch was 14, the family, like millions of others in the post-World War II decades, left the city for the suburbs. The family’s large house in a quiet, upper-middle-class Long Island neighborhood symbolized upward mobility for the DeFeos, and they hung a sign outside their new home reading “High Hopes.”
Behind closed doors, however, accounts suggest a volatile home. Friends and family members later reported that Ronald Sr. was domineering and sometimes abusive, particularly toward his son. Ronald Jr. reportedly struggled with emotional and behavioral problems from a young age. By his late teens, he had begun experimenting with drugs and alcohol and showed signs of increasingly erratic and violent behavior.
Despite working for his father’s dealership, DeFeo had frequent run-ins with his family and the law. He was also known to exhibit troubling behavior, including threats against family members and an obsession with firearms. Psychological evaluations conducted after his arrest would reveal a history of antisocial behavior, painting a picture of a deeply troubled young man spiraling out of control.